There's an old saying that goes "Wise men learn more from fools than fools will ever learn from the wise." If you are wise enough to see that the statement is a two way street, you are even further along wisdom's path. I don't necessarily disagree with everything these fine "youngsters" have written, but it's the **** sure - lack of humility - playground bully attitude that exudes from their finger tips onto the keyboard that should bug everyone - including themselves if they would step back from the easel. The real trouble with responding to any nationally publicized article is that the authors insecurity will always have the last say. That was proven by their come back to the first article and it's outcries. Just for drill and in hopes "The Boys" might read this, I want to give them something poignant to chew on.
Growing Up Normal: By Richard Ziert, 11/17/2011, 650 words, 8Th grade readability.
Who among us will know who we are until we "see ourselves as others see us?"~ (Various sources) But then, who are they that see us? Each component of the human equation amounts to less than a fly speck of truth on eternity. But without the smallest truth we condemn ourselves. Without others to influence and thereby control our actions and thoughts, we are no better than the animals we think we have risen above. This is not a statement of change to be like others, but only a view to understand who these others might be in relationship to self. Some of them, and sometimes we, act as wild animals beneath higher thought. We need to pick our friends and business associates carefully; because in large or small ways we become as they are. In the moments of wanting to prove ourselves we are blind to the future. In that exchange and inevitable mistakes we find where we fit. Upon re-sharpening the blade again and again, we find where we were meant to be. "The wise learn far more from fools than fools from the wise." ~ Cato, 234 B.C.
Following the wave of common direction, the easiest way out, can be good or bad. If we believe historic scholars and their studied pursuits, the easy way out is not generally good. More times than not, the easy way represents spiraling down of morality and integrity with no real hope of recovery without resolute intervention. Intervention from somewhere unknown at the time, something we don't like, responsibility we think we are happy without, something we secretly fear without understanding, and where we fight to slide back into bad habits for the sake of that very same poor direction.
As a youngster, and if we are wise enough at that age to see the future, we should ask who and what are these few that befriend us and the connections that can help us to a better life? We know some routes have the seeds of greatness, and some have far less. But we see this only after enough years have passed; "the years teach much that the days never will". ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Even in writing this there is no salvation for the young but to go through the doors themselves; to hopefully sort out and connect next proper steps. Only the brave will listen. Some have no shoes to make those steps. Some have not walked in others shoes nor care to. Some have way too much of the objectives of life without enough subjective. Some have way too much misguided subjectivity. Some have no guidance at all. God help us, that we may find our way.
"With technology and information available today, there is infinitely more influence to be exposed to. Friends, family, social interaction, and acquaintances all have an ever-changing weight, with individual choice, hopefully maturing. "Normal", like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder, and remains both elusive and ethereal." ~ Frank Schultz. - Schultz Apple Orchard
To go through life lessons for ourselves is all that can be hoped for. Integrity, responsibility, vision, love of your fellow man - beyond self, with humility and good motivation throughout, are all that we need; not easily and consistently achieved in this world without correction. This then is a memoir of our own; a one page book of a journey through life and the triumphs plus pitfalls of taking the right or wrong turn in the road. These are words which are easy to give as advise, but difficult to live by always. There are still times in any life we are not all that we can be; finding answers only in reflection. Let us all hope this reflection is close rather than far. Male or female, young or old we will find ourselves here, and then we will find ourselves again.
Z
Wise enough to know I'm not wise enough.






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